Thursday, September 16, 2010

Our Day in Court

Well, things didn't go quite as planned yesterday. After 6 months, the birth mother showed up in court with the supposed birth father. The case worker hadn't met her before (they looked for the mom but she made herself disappear that last half a year) and was surprised to see her there. It changed the plans, having her there. Jenny (our case worker) doesn't think it will change the eventual outcome, that we will adopt Khloie, but that it will make it a longer, more drawn out case. Awesome. The State has already set in motion their plan and recomendation to terminate the birth mom's rights and have us adopt Khloie and is still going forward with that plan. If the mom and her recently appointed public attorney want to state their case, they can do that. We have a pre-trial September 30th in the afternoon when the State will make their recommendations and if it is contested by the mom, we will set a trial date for both sides to present their case. I'm not sure what her's will be to be honest, but nonetheless, she can do it. She would have had a way better chance to have her daughter back if she would have actually showed up to visits, appointments, and her legal responsibilities in drug court. But she disappeared, so here we are. It's been a hard day... we are holding up though and praying a lot. Thanks for all your concern, love and prayers for our family. We will update after court the 30th...

5 comments:

Nicole said...

That's just crazy! I hope that everything works out for you guys. Good luck! We'll be thinking about you and praying for you all.

Becky said...

I was with Jennie when her mom called to tell her the news...I am praying for you all! Hang in there! Sending you and Doug a BIG Texas hug!

Juli said...

Aw, I'm sorry! We'll pray for you.

joni said...

I hope everything went well Emily.

Anonymous said...

BULLSHIT!! you don't show up in your childs life for 6 days never mind months then sorry but you are NOT a parent, mum go back to your dope and do your child a favour and dad cut your balls off so you can NEVER father another child,